A Cry in the Dark by Terence Ang
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A stroke survivor story of Hope and Recovery
"I was so afraid of my gibberish, so afraid of the sounds I was making. Humiliation hit me like ton of bricks. I crumbled"
Terence Ang's A Cry in the Dark is an emotional story that held me captive until I finish indulging my emotions in it. I've been a huge fan of memoirs, but this one caught me exceptionally. I love how the book started like a conversation between a child and a storyteller, coupled with the eventual introduction of the title "A Cry in the Dark". The book has some hilarious features, and some words are comical, yet, sad.
A Cry in the Dark follows up on the author's experience falling down in a toilet and how he was rushed to the hospital in an ambulance. I love the author's writing style, and his description of his condition, I found his words piercing, and achingly beautiful in a way that you begin to imagine and feel emotional about what it is like to live with a stroke. It arouses empathy, it is moving and sad. He wrote of how he restrained from people, and how he dreaded people coming to sympathize with him. One can feel his anguish from the tone of his writing, his regret, his pains, and his familiarity with the use of a wheelchair.
Terence's initial words of hopelessness leave me uncomfortable, words like "I felt very small and insignificant as if I had been robbed of my manhood" among many others, are quite instilling. Reading through his perception of "bath time" and how he felt having a total stranger staring at his nakedness made me remember some times in the past when my father was hospitalized, and how I would help him get to the bathroom in a wheelchair, bath him, wore his clothes, and take him back to his bed. How he was bedridden and does things in one spot. I can imagine what it felt like to be in such a horrible situation, as then, I often cry at the sight of my father. It was a terrible situation and reading Terence's story brought back those memories.
The book goes on to expound on Terence's speech recovery and his visits to the doctors. From reading his story, I felt there is a bit of inspiration inscribed in it, and how Terence could develop a positive perception of his condition was an admirable trait that I think the majority in his shoes need to possess. I love the game of Snakes & Ladder part, among many other amazing chapters.
A Cry in the Dark is a great read. It's sad, arousing, despondent, hopeful, and inspiring. There is something bond in it that readers can learn from, get to understand the mysteries and pain of people living with stroke, and perhaps gain new insight on how to address the world and sick ones around them. I would love to recommend A Cry in the Dark to lovers of memoirs, and literature at large.